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Dr. Williams’ Dishonest Scholarship

Sunday, September 27th, 2009

If a dishonest scholar cannot support a claim or theory with any authoritative sources, and is therefore left with either the conclusion that the facts are inconclusive or that he is wrong, he can do one of three things (remember that he’s dishonest, so he can’t admit he’s wrong):

  1. Let the issue quietly die by pretend he didn’t make an erroneous claim or theory, and hope that nobody notices. (dishonest, but can save face)
  2. Publish his erroneous claim or theory without references to any authoritative sources, and hope that nobody looks for any authoritative sources that contradict him. (dishonest, and unscholarly)
  3. Deliberately misquote or misinterpret authoritative sources so they do support his erroneous claim or theory, and hope that nobody looks up the original sources. He may also cite authoritative sources that are irrelevant to the topic at hand. (dishonest, unscholarly, and just cause for dismissal)

Of course, along with these three options, he can make legitimate scholarly quotes and citations that build his case, but don’t actually support the the main claim or theory. This gives his work an appearance of credibility, but if he chooses option 3 and someone checks all of his quotes and citations, the truth will come out, and he will loose all credibility, maybe even his job.

It seems that Dr. Paul L. Williams, Ph.D. has chosen option 3 in his article Hamas Plays Host to Pedophilia: Mass Muslim Marriage, 450 Grooms Wed Girls Under Ten in Gaza (http://thelastcrusade.org/2009/08/07/hamas-plays-host-to-pedophilia/).

In my last post (http://blog.grigaitis.net/2009/09/hamas-plays-host-to-pedophilia/), I showed how this article is slanderous based on the evidence given in the photographs and basic knowledge of Islamic Weddings and Hamas dress code for women. Today I will look at the quotations and citations in Dr. Williams’ article, and then give the actual quote from the original sources.

The first authoritative source I want to look at is from the Qur’an. This is what Dr. Williams claims the Qur’an says:

“If you are in doubt concerning those of your wives who have ceased menstruating, know that their waiting period shall be three months. The same shall apply to those who have not yet menstruated”(65:4).

Dr. Williams uses this quotation to support the claim that the Qur’an sanctions pedophilia. The context is a discussion on the waiting period required to determine if a wife is pregnant before a man can divorce her. The implication that Dr. Williams makes is that females “who have not yet menstruated” must be too young to menstruate.

Dr. Williams does not reveal the source of his translation of the Qur’an; however, after a little research, I came to the conclusion that he second sourced it from The Truth about Muhammad: Founder of the World’s Most Intolerant Religion by Robert Spencer. Mr. Spencer’s book has been acknowledge by the critics as having a number of historical errors, relies on context omissions, and uses unreliable sources. Apparently poor scholarship doesn’t prevent one from being a New York Times bestselling author. Mr. Spencer doesn’t divulge the source of his translation of the Qur’an, and since he doesn’t speak Arabic, his translation is highly suspect.

When asked for a good English translation of the Qur’an, Mr. Spencer highly recommends N. J. Dawood’s translation, along with the translations by Abdullah Yusuf Ali and Mohammed Marmaduke Pickthall. Moslems criticise Dawood’s translation as containing “inaccuracies” and “mistranslations,” and suggest that the whole purpose of this translation is to “subvert the message and meaning of the Holy Book.”

This is Dawood’s translation of this verse:

If you are in doubt concerning those of your wives who have ceased menstruating, know that their waiting period shall be three months. The same shall apply to those who have not menstruated. As for pregnant women, their term shall end with their confinement. God will ease the hardship of the man who fears him.

This translation is the same, word for word, as what appears in Mr. Spencer’s book with exception that Mr. Spencer’s version has the word “yet” in it. Dr. Williams’ version seems to have quoted Mr. Spencer’s book word for word including the insertion of the word “yet.” This means that the quote given by Dr. Williams seems to come from a modified quotation from a highly suspect source. The reason for the modification seems to be to heighten support of a weak thesis. If the thesis isn’t weak, why the need for dishonest scholarship?

The other two translations recommended by Mr. Spencer are available online from the University of Southern California, along with another translation by Mohammed Habib Shakir:

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YUSUFALI: Such of your women as have passed the age of monthly courses, for them the prescribed period, if ye have any doubts, is three months, and for those who have no courses (it is the same): for those who carry (life within their wombs), their period is until they deliver their burdens: and for those who fear Allah, He will make their path easy.

PICKTHAL: And for such of your women as despair of menstruation, if ye doubt, their period (of waiting) shall be three months, along with those who have it not. And for those with child, their period shall be till they bring forth their burden. And whosoever keepeth his duty to Allah, He maketh his course easy for him.

SHAKIR: And (as for) those of your women who have despaired of menstruation, if you have a doubt, their prescribed time shall be three months, and of those too who have not had their courses; and (as for) the pregnant women, their prescribed time is that they lay down their burden; and whoever is careful of (his duty to) Allah He will make easy for him his affair.

Sahih Bukhari is the next authoritative source I will examine. The translator I will be quoting from is M. Muhsin Khan, whose work is also available from University of Southern California.

Dr. Williams’ article uses footnotes. I will quote Dr. Williams’ article in blue, but when I come to a footnote reference, I will not quote the footnote number, but the actual footnote. Following this I will quote the sources that the footnotes cite.

After Muhammad’s elderly wife, Khadijah, died in 619 A.D., he amassed eleven wives. He arranged the visits to the tents of his women around their menstrual cycles. His capacity for sexual congress seemed to be boundless. Sahih Bukhari, one of the most revered Islamic texts, recounts: “The Prophet used to visit his wives in a round, during the day and night, and they were eleven in number. I asked Anas, “Had the Prophet the strength for it?’ Anas replied, ‘We used to say that the Prophet had the [sexual] stamina of thirty [men].’”[Sahih Bukhari, 1:268]

Volume 1, Book 5, Number 268:
Narrated Qatada:
Anas bin Malik said, “The Prophet used to visit all his wives in a round, during the day and night and they were eleven in number.” I asked Anas, “Had the Prophet the strength for it?” Anas replied, “We used to say that the Prophet was given the strength of thirty (men).” And Sa’id said on the authority of Qatada that Anas had told him about nine wives only (not eleven).

The footnote that Dr. Williams actually gives here is, “Sahih Bukhari, 1:268, translated by M. Mushin Khan, Muslim Student Association, The University of Southern California, 2001, http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamentals/hadithsunnah/bukhari/“. This link actually takes you to the same source that I am quoting from. This is the only footnote in which he provides a link, which is interesting because, as we shall see, it’s the only footnote referring to Sahih Bukhari that supports his thesis, or at least in some way helps build his case. I say this because this quote says nothing about pedophilia. According to secular mentality, this quote makes Muhammad look like a hero.

Even though this quote in a way helps build his case, Dr. Williams can’t seem to resist misquoting his source to make his case stronger. The original text says, “the Prophet was given the strength of thirty (men)”, whereas Dr. Williams misquotes it as saying, “the Prophet had the [sexual] stamina of thirty [men]“.

For in-between treats, the Prophet kept a stable of concubines, including Reihana, his Jewish captive. His wives and mistresses were compelled by Islamic law to satisfy his sexual needs at any time of the day or night, and the Prophet reserved the right to enjoy them “from the top of their heads to the bottom of their feet.”[Ibn Ishaq, Sirat Rasul Allah, pp. 525-526]

I can’t find an online version of Sirat Rasul Allah, nor is it available to me through inter-library lone. I did find it on Amazon, but I’m really not interested enough to buy it. Regardless, this quote is no more incriminating than the one above. It does not in anyway give support to the thesis that Muhammad was a pedophile.

This might not appear shocking to students of the Kinsley Report, except for the case of Aisha, Muhammad’s favorite wife. Aisha was the daughter of Abu Bakr, the Prophet’s closest friend and most faithful follower. As soon as Muhammad laid eyes on Aisha, he became to fantasize of having sex with her. There was a problem with this fantasy. Aisha, at that time, was a small child of four or five, while Muhammad was a middle-aged man of fifty.[Sahih Bukhari, 5: 235]

Volume 5, Book 58, Number 235:
Narrated ‘Aisha:
That the Prophet said to her, “You have been shown to me twice in my dream. I saw you pictured on a piece of silk and some-one said (to me). ‘This is your wife.’ When I uncovered the picture, I saw that it was yours. I said, ‘If this is from Allah, it will be done.”

Nothing in this citation supports Dr. Williams’ thesis. Dr. Williams says, “As soon as Muhammad laid eyes on Aisha, he became to fantasize of having sex with her.” In source he cites, ‘Aisha narrates that Muhammad saw her twice in a dream pictured on a piece of silk as someone said to him, “This is your wife.” Dr. Williams interprets what is portrayed as a prophetic dream from Allah as a sexual fantasy. He also seems to assume that the only reason a man marries a woman is to indulge in his lust.

Still and all, the Prophet wasted no time in making his fantasy a reality. When Aisha turned six, Muhammad asked Abu Bakr for his daughter’s hand in marriage. Abu Bakr thought that such a union would be improper – – not because Aisha was a mere child but rather because he considered himself Muhammad’s brother. The Prophet quickly brushed aside this objection by saying that the union was perfectly right in the eyes of Allah. Abu Bakr consented. And Muhammad took the little girl as his new bride.

When they were married, Muhammad, in his mercy, permitted Aisha to take her toys, including her dolls, to their new tent.[Sahih Bukhari, 8:151, 5:234]

Volume 8, Book 73, Number 151:
Narrated ‘Aisha:
I used to play with the dolls in the presence of the Prophet, and my girl friends also used to play with me. When Allah’s Apostle used to enter (my dwelling place) they used to hide themselves, but the Prophet would call them to join and play with me. (The playing with the dolls and similar images is forbidden, but it was allowed for ‘Aisha at that time, as she was a little girl, not yet reached the age of puberty.) (Fateh-al-Bari page 143, Vol.13)

Volume 5, Book 58, Number 234:
Narrated ‘Aisha:
The Prophet engaged me when I was a girl of six (years). We went to Medina and stayed at the home of Bani-al-Harith bin Khazraj. Then I got ill and my hair fell down. Later on my hair grew (again) and my mother, Um Ruman, came to me while I was playing in a swing with some of my girl friends. She called me, and I went to her, not knowing what she wanted to do to me. She caught me by the hand and made me stand at the door of the house. I was breathless then, and when my breathing became Allright, she took some water and rubbed my face and head with it. Then she took me into the house. There in the house I saw some Ansari women who said, “Best wishes and Allah’s Blessing and a good luck.” Then she entrusted me to them and they prepared me (for the marriage). Unexpectedly Allah’s Apostle came to me in the forenoon and my mother handed me over to him, and at that time I was a girl of nine years of age.

Here Dr. Williams takes a couple of facts out of context and makes up a narrative that has no basis in the sources he cites. He suggest that Abu Bakr thought that such a union would be improper, but there is no mention of Abu Bakr in the sources cited. In these sources, it is ‘Aisha’s mother, not her father, that gives her to marriage at the age of nine.

Dr. Williams describes the fact that Muhammad permitted ‘Aisha to play with dolls in a way that implies he is a pedophile; using the words, “their new tent.” The source he cites refers to the tent as, “my ['Aisha's] dwelling place,” which implies that Muhammad didn’t live there. As to the dolls, ‘Aisha describes the scene as if Muhammad enjoyed watching ‘Aisha and her friends play. “The playing with the dolls and similar images is forbidden, but it was allowed for ‘Aisha at that time, as she was a little girl, not yet reached the age of puberty.”

The marriage was consummated when Aisha was nine, and the Prophet fifty-three.[Sahih Bukhari, 5:62, 63]

Volume 5, Book 57, Number 62:
Narrated ‘Aisha:
The Prophet called his daughter Fatima during his illness in which he died, and told her a secret whereupon she wept. Then he called her again and told her a secret whereupon she laughed. When I asked her about that, she replied, “The Prophet spoke to me in secret and informed me that he would die in the course of the illness during which he died, so I wept. He again spoke to me in secret and informed me that I would be the first of his family to follow him (after his death) and on that I laughed.”

Volume 5, Book 57, Number 63:
Narrated Marwan bin Al-Hakam:
‘Uthman bin ‘Affan was afflicted with severe nose-bleeding in the year when such illness was prevelant and that prevented him from performing Hajj, and (because of it) he made his will. A man from Quraish came to him and said, “Appoint your successor.” ‘Uthman asked, “Did the people name him? (i.e. the successor) the man said, “Yes.” Uthman asked, “Who is that?” The man remained silent. Another man came to ‘Uthman and I think it was Al-Harith. He also said, “Appoint your successor.” ‘Uthman asked, “Did the people name him?” The man replied “Yes.” ‘Uthman said, “Who is that?” The man remained silent. ‘Uthman said, “Perhaps they have mentioned Az-Zubair?” The man said, “Yes.” ‘Uthman said, “By Him in Whose Hands my life is, he is the best of them as I know, and the dearest of them to Allah’s Apostle .”

There doesn’t seem to be a source that suggests Muhammad  consummated  his marriage with ‘Aisha before she reached puberty, and so there is no evidence that Muhammad was a pedophile. In the face of such a major fault in his thesis, Dr. Williams simply states that Muhammad consummated  his marriage with ‘Aisha when she was nine, cites a couple of irrelevant sources, and hopes that nobody looks them up.

The three year waiting period was not caused by Muhammad’s concern of sexually molesting a child but rather by the fact that Aisha contracted some disease which caused her to lose her hair.[Sahih Bukhari, 8:151]

Volume 8, Book 73, Number 151:
Narrated ‘Aisha:
I used to play with the dolls in the presence of the Prophet, and my girl friends also used to play with me. When Allah’s Apostle used to enter (my dwelling place) they used to hide themselves, but the Prophet would call them to join and play with me. (The playing with the dolls and similar images is forbidden, but it was allowed for ‘Aisha at that time, as she was a little girl, not yet reached the age of puberty.) (Fateh-al-Bari page 143, Vol.13)

Since he’s hoping nobody looks up his sources, Dr. Williams carelessly cites the wrong source here. He should have cited Volume 5, Book 58, Number 234. In the correct source, there is no reason given as to why Muhammad and ‘Aisha were engaged for three years. We don’t know when her “hair fell down” and later grew again. We also don’t know when their marriage was consummated. All that we know is that ‘Aisha was six when they were engaged, and nine when they were married.

A man can have sexual pleasure from a child as young as a baby. However, he should not penetrate; sodomizing the child is OK. If a man penetrates and damages the child, then he should be responsible for her subsistence all her life. This girl, however, does not count as one of his four permanent wives. The man will not be eligible to marry the girl’s sister. . . It is better for a girl to marry in such a time when she would begin menstruation at her husband’s house rather than her father’s house. Any father marrying his daughter so young will have a permanent place in heaven.[Ayatollah Ruhollah Khomeini, Tahrirolvasyleh, volume 4 (Gom, Iran: Darol Elm, 1990), p. 186]

This final quote and footnote is all over the internet. I found a translation of this book by Dr. Sayyid Ali Reza Naqavi, but I couldn’t find anything remotely resembling the quote given by Dr. Williams. There seems to be a good reason for this: there is no fourth volume. This is only a two volume text authored by Ayatollah Khomenini in very advanced, classical Arabic, and is strictly meant to be used by high Shia clerics and their students. I’m not sure how authentic the English translation I mentioned above is because high Shia clerics and their students have no reason to share this information with infidels (English speaking Westerners).

I’m guessing that Dr. Williams simply found this fictitious quote on the internet and copied it into his article. Since he’s hoping nobody checks into his other footnotes, why would he worry about this one?

The thing that convinces me the most that this quote is fictitious is the word “OK.” Do you think that a high Shia cleric would put the word “OK” in the mouth of the Ayatollah? No self respecting bible scholar would put this word in the mouth of Christ or one of his Apostles; why would an Islamic scholar treat the Ayatollah any different?

I do not profess to be much of a scholar. I second source, I don’t always cite my sources, and I even get some of my information from Wikipedia (my daughter in university is totally disgusted with this last one). I do this mainly out of laziness. What I don’t do is misquote, mislead, and fabricate facts. I may not be much of a scholar, but at least I’m honest.

Dr. Williams is both a poor scholar and a dishonest scholar. With this example of his work, one wonders how he ever got a Ph.D. in philosophical theology from Drew University and was awarded six major academic scholarships. He must have at one time been credible. I’m not surprised that he “is currently being sued by McMaster University for upwards of $2-Million, as a result of his claims that Islamic terrorists managed to steal 180lbs of unspecified nuclear material from the McMaster Nuclear Reactor.” [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paul_L._Williams#Lawsuit]

I wouldn’t read too much into ‘Aisha being a child bride as Dr. Williams tries so hard to do that he resorts to dishonest scholarship. There have been many child brides in the Christian West. For the most part, these marriages were not consummated until the child became mature. Muslims can only be painted as child molesters if the same stroke is applied to Christians.

Later Addition:

It seems that it is commonly accepted, by both Muslims and non-Muslims, that  Muhammad consummated his marriage to ‘Aisha when she was nine. This leads some Muslim men to believe they have a right to do the same; however, most Muslim scholars insist that ‘Aisha would have reached puberty when she was nine. Since true pedophilia is sexual relations with prepubescent children, Muhammad’s relationship with the pubescent ‘Aisha, although it may have been immoral, cannot be ruled as pedophilia.

There have been cases in modern times of Muslim child brides, but this is usually met with public outcry against it (the public in Islamic countries is made up of Muslims). The minimum age for marriage in most Islamic countries is between 13 and 18.

In the modern West, this may seem too young, but in our past, it was not that uncommon. The patroness of my order, St. Elizabeth of Hungary, was 14 when she married the second son of Landgrave Hermann I of Thuringia, Ludwig, who was 21. When Elizabeth was only 4, her family arranged for her to be married to the oldest son of the landgrave, Hermann, but he died, so she was betrothed to the second son. By all accounts, Elizabeth was a happy bride.

By most accounts, Islamic child brides are usually not happy brides. Many times Islamic brides are not happy in cultures that allow child brides. These are cultures where a man can divorce his wife by saying “I divorce you” three times.[1] Of course, once divorced, her father and brothers will not accept her back because she disgraced the family by being divorced. Since women basically have no rights publicly without a man to give her any rights, she’s left to fend for herself on the streets, or, if she’s lucky, her father and brothers will kill her because of the disgrace she’s caused the family.

This is what should be brought to the public’s attention, not bogus reporting like that of Dr. Williams. The unscholarly tactics, such as those described above, only make it harder for true scholars to get the truth out. The truth of Islam is bad enough, we don’t need to make anything up.

[1] The author acknowledges that it is only the Sunni, which make up 80% of Muslims, that practice the triple talaq, and that in some Sunni dominated nations, such as Turkey, Algeria, Pakistan, Bangladesh, and even Iraq, which is only 40% Sunni, the practice is banned.

Hamas Plays Host to Pedophilia

Saturday, September 26th, 2009

A friend of mine sent me a rather disturbing e-mail today describing a mass wedding sponsored by Hamas in which most of the grooms were in their mid to late twenties and most of the brides were under the age of ten. The e-mail went on to describe how pedophilia is not only acceptable in Islam, but Muhammad himself even engaged in it and the Qur’an sanctions it. I found this e-mail very disturbing not because it it describes pedophilia, but because it reeked  of slander.

There are many things that go on in some Islamic countries that I am appalled at; however, I respect the religion itself. This does not mean I agree with it. Just the opposite is true: I strongly disagree with Islam, as I’m sure Moslems strongly disagree with Catholicism. I truly want to foster respect between the two religions so that we can live in peace, and more importantly, so that conversion between the two religions can take place without violence.

The story in the e-mail that my friend sent me does nothing to foster such peace. In fact, the entire intent is to insight hatred. I have seen more than enough false information on the internet to insight hatred towards Catholics, so I am very sympathetic to all religions that fall victim to similar misinformation (the term misinformation seems too weak, as do lies and slander).

What made me suspect this story was false? Two things: First, I had never heard of religiously sanction pedophilia in Islam before, especially on such a large and public scale. Second, the story did not match the pictures that accompanied it.

The immediate thing I noticed about the pictures was the joy in the faces of the girls. They looked just like my daughters when they were flower girls. In the four pictures, I counted 19 girls, and none of them look scared.

The next thing I noticed was that the pictures were taken early during the day. I wasn’t sure, but I had the suspicion that since this was a Hamas wedding, it would be a very strict Islamic wedding. As such, the bride and groom are kept separate on the wedding day, as are the men and women. The young children can either stay with the men or the women. The first time the bride and groom see each other on the wedding day is after the marriage takes place. I judged that these pictures were taken before the wedding, not after; therefore the girls in the pictures could not be brides.

As well, Hamas women have to wear long-sleeved dresses (jilbabs) and head scarves (hijab). If a girl is old enough to be married, that is, to be sexually mature, she would have to follow Hamas dress code for women. The girls in the pictures have bare arms, bare heads, and even bare shoulders and necks. Obviously the Hamas men holding their hands would not find them sexually desirable, otherwise they would be forced to cover up so much skin. Hamas brides are not allowed to dress the way Western brides dress.

I decided to investigate my suspicions on the internet. The first website I found was The Last Crusade (http://thelastcrusade.org/2009/08/07/hamas-plays-host-to-pedophilia/). This page seems to be the source of the story. You can go here to see the pictures, but more importantly, you can read the comments. These comments testify to the results of such slander: hatred. A couple try to give a logical explanation for these pictures, but for the most part, most accept the false story without question and express words of hatred for a people. Such hatred is no better than the hatred that causes people to fly planes into buildings.

I spent a couple of hours searching the internet, but almost everything I found was an offshoot of the original false story. I only found a few webpages that countered the original story. The two best ones are from WorldNetDaily.com (http://www.wnd.com/index.php?pageId=106002), and Sky News (http://blogs.news.sky.com/foreignmatters/Post:dcc9d723-8046-4857-b618-5c1135ba6417).

The WorldNetDaily.com page begins with this:

Hamas has strongly denied Internet rumors and blog reports claiming the Palestinian Islamic group last week held a mass ceremony at which little girls were married off.

Tim Marshall from Sky News was actually at the mass wedding, and says that “the grooms, aged about 18 to about 28″ were “holding hands with their young nieces and cousins, little girls aged from about 3 to 8″. He goes on to say, “It never struck me for a moment that the little girls might later be described in the bloggersphere as the brides! How naive I am.” I highly recommend reading his whole post.

What’s really amazing is some of the comments on Mr. Marshall’s post. People are willing to believe something outrageous even though an eyewitness gives evidence to the contrary. They can only see foreign cultures through the limited lenses of their own culture. Why would a non-Christian, non-Western culture adopt the wedding customs of a culture they detest? Surely it’s not too hard to understand that a strict Islamic culture would only celebrate a strict Islamic wedding.

Here are some of the rediculous examples:

  • While you were there, did you actually see the wives standing next to their husbands as part of the ceremony? Do you have any pictures of the true wives and husbands side by side? ARE there any pictures of the adult wives next to their adult husbands?
  • Or perhaps you were taken in by your ‘hosts’ explanations about how the ‘brides’ were elsewhere…. how doe’s one get married to an absent bride? – why were the little girls (who were there) dressed like brides?
  • So Tim, During this marrage party, do the grooms know who they are marring if the girls are not present with them and if the girls are not seen, what if she says she does not want to marry this person and finally, why would they bring on children dress in white wedding dresses and not allow the brides to go onstage?
  • It is highly irregular for flower girls to hang out with the groom one-on-one, as this kind of contact is forbidden even if they are cousins. Flower girls usually aggregate around the bride, and flower boys and ring-bearers hang out with the groom.
  • Until we see EVIDENCE that there were adult female brides at this event, why in the world should we believe a biased reported like Tim Marshall? For me, the evidence speaks for itself…

For those of you that can only see through Western (i.e. Christian) cultural lenses, these are a few differences in Islamic, Hamas weddings:

  1. The brides, like all Hamas women, are covered from head to toe (usually in black) with only their hands and faces showing.
  2. Girls that are not sexually mature can show some skin. They are allowed to do this because they won’t incite lust in the men.
  3. The men and women, including the grooms and brides, are kept separate throughout the whole wedding celebration. A male reporter or photographer would not be allowed to be in the same room as the women. A female journalist would not even be allowed to go to the wedding, unless she followed the dress code and stayed with the women.
  4. Children stay either with the men or the women.
  5. The first time a bride and groom see each other on the day of their wedding is after the marriage contract is signed and they are married. At this time the groom goes over to where the women are to give presents to the females in the bride’s family (I don’t know if this would be done at a mass wedding). After giving the presents, the groom return to where the men are for the rest of the night.
  6. When the groom leaves the wedding, he again goes to where the women are, and receives his bride. This is only the second time (maybe the first time at a mass wedding) they are together at the wedding, and I doubt any male journalist are allowed to be present.

This is the video from Sky News of Tim Marshall reporting on the mass wedding: http://news.sky.com/skynews/Home/video/Gaza-Hamas-Firmly-In-Control/Video/200908115353754. Note that he says, “The women are elsewhere.” When you do see Hamas women in the video, they are completely covered except their hands and faces, and none can be seen at the wedding: no brides, no sisters (unless they are very young), and no mothers.


Again, in this video there are no women. Notice that the men dance with other men, not women. That’s because they’re kept separate. As well, some of the grooms are not accompanied by little girls in white dresses. The groom with one leg is with a little girl in a white dress during what seems to be in the morning before driving to the wedding; therefore, she cannot be his bride because he won’t be allowed to see his bride until after the wedding.


This video must have been filmed by Palestinian journalists because it shows women at the wedding (it’s also all in Arabic). Notice that they are covered with only their hands and faces showing, and the men and women are not together. Some of the little girls in white dresses are with the men, and some are with the women.

I also found one more article, this time from the New York Times dated October 30, 2008 (http://www.nytimes.com/2008/10/31/world/middleeast/31gaza.html). It seems a mass wedding sponsored by Hamas took place last year as well. Actually, it says that ten such events organised by Hamas took place last year; however, nobody took the pictures out of context.

In the picture for last year’s story, the grooms are standing on the left, and the “children” are dancing in their white sleeveless dresses. Like this year’s story, the brides are not in the picture, but the article does say, “the brides all wore black.” It goes on further to say this:

The 300 grooms were dressed in black pants, white shirts and colorful ties but no jackets, because of recent budget cuts. The brides, sitting separately among the women, wore head scarves and black robes over their evening dresses but were easily spotted by their heavy makeup. The couples had all signed marriage contracts before the event.

The grooms danced on the stage as a male singer extolled the virtues of married life. Ehab Adas, 25, one of the grooms, said he missed fighting but was keeping busy working as a secretary at the Interior Ministry. He pointed out his bride in the crowd, and proudly displayed the last text message he had received from her on his mobile phone. “Today is my real wedding,” it read. He had replied simply, “I love you.”

Although Hamas has long organized joint weddings, it is now doing so with more verve, placing special emphasis on remarrying its war widows. One of them, Amani Saed, 24, attended the mass wedding with her two young sons from her first marriage, Rami, 5, and Muhammad, 3. Their father, Khaled Saed, was killed at the age of 28 during the clashes between Hamas and Fatah in August 2007.

This is a far cry from pedophilia. The next time you read something about another religion that seems too evil to believe, check into it before you accept it, and more importantly, make sure it’s correct before you pass it on to someone else. Such misinformation can get someone killed. If members of Hamas checked into the stories they’re given, there’d be a lot less dead Israeli children.

In my next post (http://blog.grigaitis.net/2009/09/dr-williams-dishonest-scholarship/) I reveal how the e-mail that this post deals with misquotes the Qur’an, cites sources that are irrelevant to the point they are suppose to support, and quotes a fictitious source.

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Sunday, September 20th, 2009

On Wednesday I got an e-mail from the Conservative Party of Canada. It was kind of cute because they had Mike Duffy say my first name (I wonder how many names he recorded). After listening to Mike Duffy talk about all the stuff the Conservatives are doing for Canada, I was given a chance to give my feedback. I was asked to rank the issues I care about. They didn’t have my number one priority listed, so I put “religious freedom” in the box provided. I then clicked on the “Join the Conversation” button and wrote the following:

I am worried about religious freedom in Canada. I am Roman Catholic, and my fiancee is Ukrainian Catholic. It seems that our (the Catholic Church in Canada) rights are secondary to the rights of minorities that engage in activities that our Church teaches are immoral.

Catholic organisations are not free to deny rental of their facilities to same-sex “weddings”, nor are they free to deny same-sex couples from adopting children. Soon, it seems, Catholic individuals will not be free to refuse dispensing contraceptives, nor will they be free to refuse participation in abortions. Soon, it seems, Catholic parents will not be free to remove their children from specific school classes that contradict Catholic morality, and Catholic schools will not be free to teach Catholic morality. Right now, Catholics are not free to publicly speak out against the immorality of the above mentioned minorities. These minorities are free to publicly say that Catholics are wrong, but Catholics are not free to publicly say that these minorities are wrong.

Catholics that do speak out risk legal action against them by the Canadian Human Rights Commission and the provincial commissions. If legal action is taken against them, they are forced to pay for legal council, whereas the legal costs of the individuals making claims against them are covered by the Canadian government. Thus, Catholics are penalised whether they are found guilty of “human rights” violations or not.

I bare no ill will towards the individuals in the above mentioned minorities. I wish them true happiness; however, I also firmly believe they can only find true happiness in Catholicism. I should be free to wish them such happiness, and I should be free to cultivate a family environment in which my children and my children’s children can find such happiness.

If you want to “Join the Conversation,” this is the link:
http://movingforward.conservative.ca

We’ve switched from Tim Hortons to Starbucks

Saturday, September 19th, 2009

September 19, 2009
Tim Hortons Head Office
874 Sinclair Road
Oakville, ON L6K 2Y1

To whom it may concern:

I had a morality crises today. I asked my daughters, “Mommy wants a coffee and five Timbits. Does anyone else want any Timbits?” One said she’d have some, but the other said, “I’ll have two, but don’t get any chocolate.” I asked, “Why not?” She replied, “Because they’re not fair trade.” I said, “Neither is the coffee, so what’s the difference?” She got angry with me, and explained that I shouldn’t buy Tim Hortons coffee either. This sparked an hour of discussion that involved some research on the internet.

We have three coffee shops in our home town: Two are Tim Hortons, and one is a Starbucks. The Starbucks is in our Safeway, and we usually only buy coffee there when we have to buy something at Safeway, which isn’t very often because we prefer to shop at another store. This means we usually go to one of the two Tim Hortons once or twice a day; buying a total of at least one large coffee and donut a day, and as much a four large coffee based drinks in addition to baked goods.

After our discussion and research, we’ve decided to switch to Starbucks solely on the fair trade issue. I’ve compared prices, and Starbucks is 12¢ more for 473 ml of coffee. This will add up to more than $50 a year, but we are willing to pay it in order to be sure a fair price is paid to the coffee grower.

We would consider switching back to Tim Hortons for convenience sake if Tim Hortons begins to use fair trade coffee and chocolate in all its products. Please contact me if this happens.

I have given a copy of this letter to the two Tim Hortons in town, and have posted a copy on my blog to encourage others to be more conscientious about their coffee and chocolate purchases.

Sincerely yours,
R. J. Grigaitis

Below is the response I received from the above letter. I obtain permission from the TDL Group to post this on my blog.

Dear Mr. Grigaitis,

Thank you for your questions regarding Tim Hortons and fair trade Coffee. We believe the best approach to address the long-term issues facing coffee growers is through a “coffee partnership” program. Although fair trade programs are admirable we decided against buying fair trade coffee and developing a program that works directly with the growers. The fair trade program requires certification on behalf of the farmers which is an expense they cannot usually afford plus it provides a price that has no relation to the quality of the coffee.

In 2005, we launched a coffee partnership pilot project to make a meaningful contribution in the fight against poverty amongst the people who are an integral part of the coffee industry. We also wanted to play a meaningful role in providing for the future supply of quality green coffee. The initial pilot project in Guatemala touches approximately 1,000 small coffee producers and their families and is intended to directly improve the living conditions of about 5,000 people. Under the program small coffee producers are being provided with technical support and training to help them increase the amount and quality of coffee they produce. Assistance is being provided to them to get their coffee to market, at the best time and for the best price, while emphasizing the need to respect and protect the environment. The program aims to improve the social conditions of the farmers and their families by identifying and addressing the pressing needs of the families, especially youth education.

In 2006, we launched two additional coffee partnership projects, one in Columbia and one in Brazil, with the result that these programs now touch the lives of approximately 9000 people.

With this new and innovative program, Tim Hortons is helping to improve the living conditions of thousands of small coffee farmers and their families. More importantly, we believe that Tim Hortons will set an example for the rest of the coffee industry and showcase how coffee can be produced in a sustainable way based on strong partnerships within the supply chain.

Kind Regards,

Sheila
Operations Services
The TDL Group Corp.

My reply to this was quite simple:

If fair trade certification is too expensive for your coffee growers to afford, then obviously you’re not paying them enough. I’ll stay with Starbucks because they pay their growers enough so that they can get fair trade certification.

Reproductive Health?

Thursday, September 17th, 2009

This is the opening paragraph to an article I just read from LifeNews.com (http://www.lifenews.com/state4423.html):

Washington University has joined forces with Barnes-Jewish Hospital and Planned Parenthood of St. Louis to train abortionists. It is called the Family Planning Fellowship Program, and its stated goal is to “develop tomorrow’s leaders in reproductive health.”

The last two words made me stop and think: “Shouldn’t reproductive health involve reproduction?”

Cardiovascular health involves helping a heart pump blood throughout the vascular system. Any doctor that intentionally stops a cardiovascular system is not engaging in cardiovascular health, but murder.

Reproductive health involves helping the reproduction of human life. Any doctor that intentionally stops the reproduction process is not engaging in reproductive health. If a life is aborted, murder is committed.


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